>>9601234You want to know the truth about incels?
They do want a girlfriend. And they probably don't care too much about looks. Because they're lonely to the point of losing touch with reality- these people are incredibly desperate, and that desperation is probably their #1 turn off. They can't hide it, no matter how hard they try. They are desperate for something to break themselves free of their lifelong depression and anxiety. Desperate for a hand to hold. Desperate to look a girl in her eyes, and see her smile. The hatred of society weighing down on them, the safe option is to isolate. The only comfortable place for the incel is alone. Stay an incel too long, and there is no coming back. The sex drive is gone, destroyed by years of daily masturbation. They spent so much of their life watching porn, not for the pleasure of it, but to block out their emotions.
The story is different for every incel. The mother's death that they never recovered from. The bullying in school. The speech defect that kept them from fitting in. The heinous skin condition. They all have something. And they hurt. They hurt every day, for a long, long time. When you watch porn, you can fry the emotions out of your brain. Most people hate this. The trauma brain incel, however, loves this feeling. They love the numbness. They become dependent on the numbness, it's the only way they can function after a while. It starts out as porn, usually, but once the sex drive dies, the incel has to turn to other substances to regain that numbness. To take away the thoughts in their head. This is when the alcohol and drug abuse begins. Maybe this is when they start cutting. Once the incel cuts, it's over. They will never be respected by society ever again. No woman will ever take the incel seriously. There will only be one thing left for the incel - pity. It's either pity or hatred. After a while, the pity grows old, and the hatred seems preferable.
But you already know him. He's you.