We lie because of men.
Because men think they’ve been cheated if they’re not allowed to sexually abuse and degrade us in ways we have been in the past.
Because men think our vaginas should always have the same standards of entry at all times at every point in our life because we’re not allowed to ever demand better treatment than we naively accepted in the past
Because men are arrogant, ignorant, and self important enough to think our vaginas are actually physically changed forever by the presence of a penis
Because if we allow it, they will think they are entitled to intrude and control our daughters’ sexuality they way do ours
Because they think our sexual history decides whether or not we can receive justice for our rape
Because they think our sexual history can be used to deny us employment
Because they think our sexual history can be used to justify our murder and mutilation
Because they will judge us as lesser beings for sexual trauma or abuse that was beyond our control
There is absolutely nothing good that has ever happened or can happen from revealing our sexual history. It will ONLY be used against us to justify abuse, degradation, exclusion, commodification. THEY WILL USE IT TO MAKE US SUFFER.
WE FLAT OUT REFUSE TO RISK THEIR VIOLENCE OR ENTERTAIN THEIR IGNORANCE AND WE DONT FUCKING CARE WHO DOESN’T LIKE IT.
WE WILL LIE UNTIL IT IS SAFE FOR EVERY WOMAN AND GIRL TO TELL THE TRUTH.
DIE MAD.