>>983461Femme boy likes to be Femme, is generally pretty happy and excited about it. He knows he is a boy and is ok with that, he is comfortable with who he is.
The tranny is a troubled soul. They wish they were a girl for real, but of course that is impossible. Many of them have a lot of mental anguish, so they are pretty insecure and it's hard for them to enjoy their life.
In summary, one is doing it for fun and because they get off on it, the other is doing it because of a psychological condition.