>>9836493It's about understanding what women are.
Do you get mad at a cat for not behaving like a dog? No.
So don't get mad at women for not behaving like men.
Just remember this as you enter relationships and remember that your friends are important so that you have someone to vent to and lean on in tough times. Because your woman isn't that kind of individual. And she'll eventually despise you if you try to make her be that kind of person.
My gf is cool, she plays vidya with me, etc. We joke, enjoy the same shows, etc.
But I never vent or whine to her. I went through a period of stress for months in the previous summer at work and I never said a word. I vented to my dad, my friends and my brothers.
She came over this weekend, stayed the night, etc. She's been stressed and worried about all the stuff going on.
She left last night to go back home and she texted me, saying "thank you for being so stable and calm, it's good to know I can just relax and count on you to be strong for me".
She doesn't even realize what she's saying, what's she's admitted.
And this isn't a bad thing, if the woman is submissive. The issue is women who want to run things while simultaneously expecting you to be the leader and holding it against you when you're not.
Internalize this:
Men love women for their virtues and values (and their utility).
Women love men they can submit to and lean on.