>>9849049I've been there before.
She seemed so cool and responsible at first, more on top of her shit than any other girl I've dated.
Also she was fit as fuck and absolutely amazing at sex.
I dated her for 3 years, and spent lots of time with her and her kid. Eventually, the stress of her past bad choices began to weigh on her. She was stuck in her career, had no time to focus on herself. She became an absolute mess, and started showing her depression that she's apparently had for years (I had no idea). She also got fat.
She became mean and spiteful. She didn't like when I worked on my goals, because it meant I couldn't be miserable with her and her kid.
I moved out of state for my dream job and she couldn't follow. We didn't have enough money, since her support group (family) for the kid was back at home.
After moving, long distance was a fucking mess.
I began dating other girls, and met a responsible, educated, goal-oriented and CHILDLESS skinny woman. Got engaged, it's great and order of magnitude better.
But single mom still contacts me randomly telling me how I ruined her and her kids life, by being a "flake" and not being "man enough" to stick around.
They're entitled.
They're mentally deranged.
Never again.
