>>9891872I will contest this.
While the vast majority of women I know who have been raped fall clearly into those categories, sometimes multiple, if no all, I will say an exception would be my mother, who was raped when she was quite younger.
She's still an absolute sweetheart who'd do anything for her family, any any of her bitchyness is just as prevalent in her mother as it is in her.
Not to say she's the silent majority, and not to say she still doesn't somewhat fit into "unlovable damaged goods", she still has a heart of gold, just a flawed one.
That said, again, I previously assumed in some cases that if a woman had gone through such trauma she may endeavour not to be a total piece of shit.
I'm ashamed to say how long it took for me to realise that victims can be shit people too, and that if they were a shit person in the past, being raped won't necessarily give them any extra perspective.
The long and the short of it is "don't dump a girl just because she was raped", but do tread carefully.
Being raped can fuck a girl up, sure, but remember that compared to the average woman, it may not be as significant a difference as you think.
