>>9899660The key problem of incels is that they don't really want sex. In fact they're mostly sexually satisfied with jerking off, and the main problem that makes them butthurt is the pressure of society and low status.
I mean, come on, if you really have sex drive, there's no way you'd stay a virgin in your twenties. You can save up and pay a prostitute, you can try hooking up with the most disgusting slag in your local bar, or even deal with a single mother for a while to have access to her pussy.
But instead of doing any of that, incels keep jerking off in their homes. It's not that they're complete coomers, but their sex drive is either low and can be easily satisfied by fap, or deformed and now they desire not to have sex with a woman per se, but to look at her pictures.
Why do so many men suddenly don't want to have sex anymore?
Obviously, higher estrogen in environment is pretty obvious and was discussed a lot.
What's less obvious is extreme socializing influence in media. From a certain point of time (I'm not sure, but I think it around 80's), most children started getting their experience on human interactions from watching movies, playing videogames, and reading books, not from their own interactions. And modern media is extremely destructive for a healthy man-woman dynamic.
I'll focus on content for boys and men here, but girl-focused media is another huge can of worms.