>>1000645Whoa, calm down and take a step back. You can realize what could may be a problem with yourself, and that's honestly a great thing. Because now that you think you know what a problem is, you can go about fixing it, you know? Don't let the stress and frustration of whatever your parents did (or didn't do) get in the way of what you're capable of. What happened in the past stays in the past, and today is your time. Right now. You're better than this, even if you don't always realize it.
Sure, maybe you make a mistake here and there with a girl but that's okay because we all make mistakes. Nobody comes into this world perfect.... no, we all enter this world a small, mishapen, slimy, crying thing that can't function on our own.
Next time you find someone nice, and they come to you for any reason (friendship, advice, etc), take a breath and remind yourself that this is great. That you're great. Speak calmly and honestly. One girl may not immediately appreciate it, but she will in time. The next girl may be someone special. Trust me, nobody can see into the future. Just as I've told that other guy, someone special may be right there for you right now. Or you'll meet that person tomorrow. Imagine how exciting that is! Someone perfect ALL FOR YOU could be right around the corner!
Per aspera ad astra; through hardships to the stars. Remember that, stranger. And should you fail? Don't worry; we've all got your back. We'll help lift you up.
