>>2619655I told both my most recent ex and my current partner about my various kinks, and in both their cases, their reaction to the stuff they actively disliked was "Not my thing, but what you jerk off to is none of my business", and everything else was stuff they were fine with sometimes incorporating into sex. No kink is going to completely define your sex life, and porn will still be there to fill in any gaps your partner isn't comfortable actually doing in real life, just like it'll be there for them when they inevitably have a kink you're not a fan of.
