>>2122573She wasn't a little girl, she was 14, lolita is commonly accepted to refer to pubescent girls only, not kids.
In anime/manga boards though is used for little girls in general. But how we use a word doesn't change the meaning of the word.
The same way everything is being called NTR nowdays, when it only refers to a very particular scenario where the guy enjoys watching his girl being fucked by other guys, but here is used to refer to "girlfriend stealing", even when she isn't even a girlfriend.
