I have a question I've been dying to ask you people for a while now:
Does any of you identify yourselves as asexuals?
For those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about, let me explain:
To put it bluntly someone who is asexual doesn't want to have sex; nothing more (people from the asexual community tend to prefer calling it “a lack of sexual attraction” which is very hand-wavy). Keep in mind that having a fetish and masturbating does NOT affect weather or not you fit the description.
I, for example was only ever interested in ENF, specifically when the female loses her clothes “by accident”, preferably piece by piece, forcing her to struggle to keep covered (my suspencion of dispeleef when it comes to ENF is pretty damn extensive as you might imagine). Naturally Misa's “a special night” is one of my all times favourites (thanks for writing that by the way, you're awesome!). Back to the point: I don't think I've ever seriously thought to myself “damn I want to band that person”. Naturally that made things kind of awkward in school when my friends started talking about watching porn and so forth so when those topics were brought up I most often just went quiet, I guess they just assumed I was shy or gay.
The reason I'm asking this is mainly to find out whether or not some of you are similar to me in that regard or if I'm the odd one out, but also to introduce the concept to those of you who have never heard of it (maybe you find the description fits you)
here is a link to the largest forum for asexuals:
http://www.asexuality.org/ here is a thread on there about fetishism among asexuals:
http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/81289-bdsm-kinks-and-asexual-fetishes/ Also posting some of the pics I've dug up lately
