>>2925366Blackmail is on my tag blacklist cause it almost always gets taken too far, and rarely is it against someone who deserves it. There's a few I read way back where the blackmail turned to wholesome romance later on, but I'm not making myself mentally unwell to find the few that are like that.
Humiliation is almost always paired with like 5 other tags that are also on my blacklist like diapers, infantilization, urine, bullying, or rape. I learned like a decade ago that as awesome as a "Humilation" tag sounds as an ENF fan, it is not a safe way of finding ENF.
I appreciate you trying to help though! I've just developed a deep understanding of what I can and can't tolerate in smut over the years. Ideally I'm looking for something more tame than what either of those tags have to offer.