>>2999737>>2999882Yea but the compulsion to submit is quickly overridden by the thought of
>My ass is on fire and my sciatic nerve is being whacked by a board of wood make it stop make it stop make it stop.So the consent aspect is typically called Consensual Nonconsent, or CNC.
Basically, there's an agreement that the sub wants to be forced through something overwhelming, in this kink's case, a thorough ass whooping, that may be difficult to maintain consent to while it's happening.
The parties enthusiastically agree in advanced, then the spanker can make it happen while the spankee is petrified by the fear of what they signed up for.
CNC also, depending on interpretation, alters the usual mainstream inclusion of safewords to enhance the sense of power exchange during a spanking. Although that requires more trust between partners.
Personally, as a spankee, I like to balance safety with control by only having safewords for "unintentional problems.":
>You hit my spine.Unintended, we stop.
>My skin broke and I didn't agree to bleeding.Unintended, we stop.
>It hurts so much!Very much the intent, shut up and bend back over.
Misuse of my safeword should incur additional punishment to discourage abusing it. And even if the excuse is valid, once it's remedied, there's no reason to not resume the spanking.
>Has your ass fully healed?>Yea? Why?>Because you have x swats remaining, bend back over.As for obedience, any sort of force or bondage should cost extra swats too, so the least painful way to get through a spanking is to fully cooperate.
