>>27978543080 12gb, bought specifically for SD. I should have gone bigger. Hires steps at 20 (exists in comfyui too, and it took me months to finally make the switch so a111 still feels like home) but 0.5 denoise. It does, but this would never work for me in my regular day to day usage. I prefer exploration to refinement most of the time.
And yes, often those types of loras/embeds do alter style (and usually not in a positive way), not sure if it's avoidable. Personally if I really want to have perfect hands I'd redraw and inpaint (or reroll, see my point about very slow upscaling). we're talking half an hour for this one upscaling job (80sec*20steps). It is looking great though.