>>2655886BP download Steam version find the launcher, and DLC, download BP pack, drag and drop.
VV download TunnelBear, Singapore, add to library download. Download ReShade. Mods go to Loverslab.
They both have a little hassle to install but VV should be easier.
Lighting? Reshade for both. But BP includes the really nice looking presets and such, for whatever reason VV users don't like sharing that.
Characters? VV has all characters via mods.
Intractable like poking and such? VV
Camera controls? VV
Overall, VV.
Only thing BP has is Lisa, body types and unique breasts/nipples and not having to update your mods to work with the game every few weeks.
I'm personally a fan of BP more and I just play VV with no mods. I really should get to using reshade for VV one of these days.