>>2865078I'm seeing what you're laying down, and I'm liking it. While waiting for Civitai to complete my first batch I'm been searching more and it seems someone was able to do SDXL training on even a 3060 with the right settings.
https://civitai.com/articles/5255/my-sdxl-lora-experience-12gb-rtx3060-gpu-local-training-wkohya-ssIt seems like it would be worth an attempt to do this locally after all.
If I'm successful, I might even make a rentry that condenses that info in the linked guide down to strictly what's required and nothing more. The LoRA guides in the OP seem to be focused on SD1.5.