>>1588301XD I suppose staring with intention of sex could be construed as worse, huh? I never really thought about it like that, though. Because when you watch porn you don't want to marry the actress, spend your life with her, raise a family, and live happily ever after, right? I see sex as simply a base physical desire, not related to higher-order functions like love. When I look at a cute anime character, however, particularly one who I've watched the show and love her personality... I begin to wish that I could be with her, know her more closely, and share my life with her. That's when it starts to get weird... Not when I just want her to strip of her clothes so I can stroke my dick a few times.
I also like staring at hentai over normal porn because it lacks the intimate detail of reality. Where they take shortcuts in drawing you can fill in the blanks with your imagination. I'll often use hentai merely to get my mind started thinking about poses or positions, then mentally fill in real women in this same context.
And my pickyness extends well beyond simply dick / no dick. I'm extremely fond of the female form and want absolutely NOTHING to do with dicks, however I also want nothing to corrupt the female form. If the proportions are messed up, if it's drawn poorly, if the colors are off, if she's in an unnatural or uncomfortable pose, if she looks like she's in pain,... there's a large array of things that ruin a picture for me.