Someone recently advised me Nana to Kaoru as a rather good fetish based ecchi manga and i think it's pretty good.

However while the series does a great job at painting bondage as an acceptable not necesary evil fetish (and not just as a trick to rape girls better) and is actualy very ecchi, i begann to wonder if it isn't still somewhat sexist.
I mean it still seems to imply that all strong headed woman are secretly very submissive and just want to get out of their shell.
I mean it almost never hints that males might also be submissiv.

But maybe i'm reading too much wrong into it. So correct me if i'm wrong.

Still great series.

PS: Yes i know the majority of ecchi and hentai are sexist to beginn