>>2114198In the event that you choose to separate, if it was your decision to do so you must have your penis surgically removed. If you are discovered to be cheating on her, same deal. If she decides to leave you, no penalty. Same if you are forced apart by means outside of your control.
Before you two have sex, you must take a sedative (sucking the life out of you?), and she will take an aphrodisiac. The sedative is enough to put you to sleep once it kicks in. Regardless of when you fall asleep, she will continue to have her way with you as she pleases. This will not be considered rape under any circumstances.
Anything she does to you while you are out, within reason, is fair game. For example, if you wake up with nipple clamps on, a butt plug in your ass, and your dick locked up in a steel chastity cage with no key in sight, that's all ok. Physical harm is out. You two can work out exceptions to this yourselves.
The sex will have to be spaced out to account for trying to avoid sedative or aphrodisiac addiction, but as long as time allows, you can demand sex any time of day or night. This will not be considered rape under any circumstances.
You both may masturbate each other as often as you like without taking the sedatives and aphrodisiacs, as long as there's no oral, anal, or vaginal action. You want to lick her clit until she screams? Sure. She wants to stroke your cock until it erupts? Go for it. You both want to rub each other off with your feet? By all means.
All of this is contractualized and you both must sign it. Some lawyer works his magic and guarantees that all penalties will hold up in court.