>>1149564as a 29 year old guy who recently got into bmx and had way to much trouble bunny hopping, and than just "learned" it instantly, I'd have to say.
your overthinking it.
really.
have a beer or to and just do it.
just try to jump with you bike.
maybe do it on some softer ground.
you'll probably do an "improper" one without lifting the front wheel much and it will be not that high, but once you got that down you can easily pick up the rest.
i watched way to many videos and tried for days some weird intricate steps until I had an epiphany , watching a kid hop on a scooter.