>>1092027>>1092165>People are annoying and redundantto most principled and intelligent people - yes.
>The whole fixation (and desperation) of being with others is kinda of unhealthy and destructive desu.yes, its very woman-like in terms that women (and frat bros) are scared shitless if they arent always in a relationship or with friends, they cant enjoy being alone as much as man do.
that being said, as an INTJ /pol/ack I literally have to force myself to be around people, people make you grounded once you figure yourself out on your own. The problem with cycling and socializing is that if you are a non-casual, you wont enjos any non competative ride road or mtb (stuff like pacing or ride planning, stopping is all geared towards solo riding and a minus in group rides).
My solution is to mix cycling with other sports like BJJ etc. OP, join a club or start training some marial art you enjoy, plenty of people who do BJJ are also into cycling in my club for some reason.
also, there is absolutly nothing wrong with time for yourself, its very good for your stability actually, but FORCE yourself to socialize.
