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My daughters mom killed herself by getting hit by a train.
>be me, 17
>fuck my gf, she gets pregnant
>move to Canada with family at about the same time
>just mom at home, dad passed away
>she's obviously pretty pissed
>she's back in South Africa
>work quite a bit, pulling 70 hour weeks to send money etc
>can't afford to see our child because of the above
>talk to her pretty often, she seems fine
>start going to uni while working, studying EE
>working my ass off to keep things together
>years of this
>have no friends basically
>drink to get through work
>hardly see family any more
>all my money is spent long before I see it
>she tells me nothing about her problems, but still friendly
>never know where my money goes
>graduate uni at 23
>ex hardly talks any more
>seems to have gotten stale
>daughter is pretty awesome, always makes me smile
>ex ends up laying in front of a train at night and committing suicide
>left a note about how her dreams were crushed since she got pregnant
>in dispute with her parents over custody
>ultimately I win
>bring my daughter to Canada
>pretty much stop drinking cold turkey
>things slowly getting better
>have a semi-decent job in Waterloo
Not sure if it was a good thing or a bad thing honestly, don't have much emotions for me ex desu. I just feel shitty my daughter will grow up without a mom just like how I spent a lot of my life without a dad because of cancer. It has been tough these past few years but I think things are looking up. Don't have much free time any more, usually spent working or with my daughter. Not sure what to do with my free time now either, been so long since I had it I've lost most of my hobbies.
Pic related, the kind of train that hit my ex
