>>1267903>4 years ago during my freshman year of college I met a cute girl.>she has a crush on me and tries to talk to me.>I became very sick around the same time (uncommon disease).>because of the sickness my self confidence goes in the toilet>talk to her when I see her here or there but I never made an attempt to ask her out on a date>she remains a friend and we talk once in awhile>3 semesters go by and I transfer out of that college to one closer to home because it makes dealing with the sickness easier.>3 years go by, she gets into a relationship with another guy, he's a pretty ok dude too.>at the beginning of this year I had a surgery to fix symptoms of my disease.>confidence_restored.avi>start messaging her this summer, find out she's a huge foamer and appreciates all kinds of transit>invite her on a day trip with friends over the summer, and something clicks>after a few more day trips and meeting her, I confess my love to her. In the rain, at a train station.>she confesses her love back>this_is_unexpected.jpeg>remember that she is still in a 3 year relationship and she lives with her bf>still meet with her over the last few months every time I can.>we fall madly in love with each other, and half the time when we see each other we take the local commuter train.>one day well visiting her she kisses me>we then made out>She is contemplating breaking up with her bf and being with me, but is extremely hesitant because she would loose alot of the friends shes made over the 3 years.>I'm planning on transferring back to the college that I once met her at to finish my degree in the summer.>She has halfheartedly agreed that breaking up with him will be easier when I live closer.>she agreed that the first trip as a couple would be a long distance Amtrak train (probably the Zephyr)So /n/ should I possibly wait 6-7 months to be with this girl, or am I wasting my time and breaking up an already good relationship? It's tough, but she's perfect.
