>>1821220The secret is not to care what you look like, i mean sure, it's healthy to take a bit of pride in your appearance, not narcissistic levels, but you know, keeping yourself clean and tidy etc, but when it comes to functional attire,. work wear, sports wear, safety gear etc all that matters is how well it fits and how well it helps you perform whatever task you are concerned with at that moment, nothing else fucking matters and if you're good at whatever it is you're doing while genuinely giving zero fucks about what others may or may not think you'll exude a kind of effortless cool that cannot be faked or forced.
But you'll never be that guy because you do give many fucks about the opinions of people you'll never even know.