>>1096946are you aware of your flaws? Mostly its about confidence and being willing to fail, once you understand failing isn't the end of the world you will be able to act more natural in all encounters with potential partners.
From there it's a matter of exploring your good sides, are you funny? Witty? Smart? Fun? It's not just a matter of picking any random guy, but one who finds your strengths endearing. Personally I find that choosing someone to try and chase is the harder part. Also you need to bin any notion you may have of 'the one' no one you get along with in your life was made for you and yet here you are with whatever relationship that statement brung to mind. You can get along with anyone if you put in the effort and aren't polar opposites.
