>>1643581back when i was first doing my flight training, i also was a bit nervous every time i got into the plane. you are going to have to learn how to have confidence in your ability to operate the plane. if something happens, you will adapt to it without panicking. thats the mindset you are going to have to adapt to if you want to succeed.
also, what
>>1643613 said. you'd be surprised how level you fly the plane if you will just focus on generally keeping the nose level with the horizon instead of paying attention to your instruments all the time.
if the guy (women atc almost always give an attitude, from my experience) is rushing you, just tell them you are a student pilot, even if it isnt true. they will be more patient.