>>1932307I'm not sure what being a lesbian has to do with wearing distressed clothing. Distressed clothing has always been popular with lots of people but most don't end up looking homeless. This leads me to believe you also have some other very obvious issues: are wearing dirty distressed clothes, have unwashed, knotted hair, dirty finger nails and odours.
You must also give off other signs besides appearance that make it obvious, perhaps some sort of mental illness symptom manifesting without your realization such as discussing strange beliefs or convictions with full sincerity, or maybe talking to voices in your head when you're out in public. Stuff you don't consciously register or that you assume everyone else also does.
There must be something because I don't think most people look at a woman wearing some stylistically rough looking clothes as being homeless and then begin to offer help (which in many cases actually translates to "you need 30 bucks for another hit? suck my dick).
Again, not sure what lesbianism has to do with appearing to be homeless to complete strangers in public.