Just call people out for having fragile masculinity such as when they boast about how they want to run people over for walking or biking.

"You wouldn't wear a tutu to boast your daughter's self esteem because you're too worried about how the world looks at you for being less of a man that you think that you are."

https://www.today.com/parents/superdad-wore-tutu-his-daughter-s-ballet-class-just-make-t119019