>>2788813NTA, but girls who are 4-6/10 hot are the types who need to develop a personality or interests in order to feel accomplished. Totally fucking ugly girls just give up, and notably attractive women get free validation from hordes of men (and often women) the moment they feel bad.
As a result, those women who are good enough looking not to hate themselves, but not good enough looking to get easy mode life, get into hobbies where you can enjoy on your own but also invite friends, if they're into it as well. AKA, outdoor hobbies that REI caters to.