>>629309>shaking hands means I didn't chew him outYou can do both. My philosophy is that forgiveness is only valid from a position of power, and obviously something had to be done to regain that power before I told him it was all good. Dude was already scared because I didn't take off running, so telling him he fucked up and could have gotten himself shot or thrown in jail (once I was close I could have physically overpowered him and called the cops) shook him up to the point where he was downright grateful when I shook his hand. Did your father never shake your hand and make you look him in the eye after spanking you?