>>1838210Englander here, I'm thinking you jocks would probably be best with just a day hike and pub. Get to know each other quite a bit before you do bigger meets (such as a bothy). If you jocks already know each other when it does come to multiple day meets, (which is what'll end up attracting more people) then it'll be less awkward and if norf and souf fc don't get on, you already got a group of fellow Mongolian weaving basket fans to go /out/ with anyway.