>>1814055Anon if I though you could build a beautiful family that would last the rest of your life I would be behind you 1000%
However lets look at what is really on the table here going forward. You will have kids and happiness until your kids are about half grown , then one person in your family unit will very likely become unstable and angry and tear everything down with the help of the state.
Now you will live a life of indentured servitude where you work feverishly to support a family you no longer even see.
How you are you going to beat the odds on this?
I know that in your head there are strategies that will be effective.
This is no more real than alternative medicine . Its just a placebo that will keep you on the marriage track until its too late .