>>1978562This man knows.
People have such weird fucking standards. Let that shit go, the perfect person doesn't exist. The perfect relationship is forged, not found.
You aren't going to find someone to love you if you don't give a fuck about yourself. Work on yourself, keep an open mind, and always strive to learn new things.
Not that you guys care but simple things to better yourself:
-Get outside a lot. I know we're on an outdoor board but so many people don't spend enough time outside. Go for lots of walks, hikes, go canoeing, go snowboarding, go do fun things outside. Even if it's a local trail or park or your block or whatever. Say hi to people, smile at them, give a wave and continue on your way... Don't be a fucking creep on the prowl, it's just nice to be friendly to people.
-Work out, try to eat well, and drink lots of water. You'll feel better about yourself, you'll look better, and you'll be healthier. If you're into it, the gym is honestly one of the best places to meet people. Rock climbing gyms are even better, bring a friend if you need or join a club there.
-Spend less time on the computer/tv/video games and pick up some hobbies. Challenge yourself to learn new things, be more creative, etc. Try sewing, it feels fucking awesome to make your own gear, test it out, and refine it.
-Kinda related to the above but stop watching so much porn and weird shit on the internet. It fucks with your head.
-Get a job. I see a lot of people on here against working and shit, but honestly working is hella rewarding. Not only do you get money to do fun shit, but you meet people, learn new things, challenge yourself, etc. If you don't want to be a part of the system or whatever, start your own business, find an /out/ related job, or go work some bullshit until you figure out what you want to do.
-Shower every day, get some decent fitting clothes, get a haircut, clean your house/room and keep it clean, make your bed, fold your clothes. Be an adult.
