>>1473592>and chose to seek a wife outside of.For now.
You understand that you have no control over her actions and she may change bigly in 10 years leaving you absolutely crushed.
If the two of you are involved in a religion , she can easily leave it and take your kids to a far off city and you will be tracked town and made to pay child support.
Dont think this cant happen to you.
Also please understand that I DO NOT WISH THIS ON YOU IN ANY WAY and hope that you are one of the ones who will beat the odds.