>>573461>MGTOWDon't fall for this trap OP. They're a group of virgins who act pretentious and achieve nothing in live but jealousy and bitterness. You've either got to find a positive thinking friend or have to will power to change your own mindset. The reason you only meet those partying girls is because you're looking for extros. You need yourself an introverted girl and you're not going to find them on apps like Tinder or sites like OkCupid. Now this is going to suck but if you want to find a qt you have to join some sort of group. Let it be a hiking or a reading group. Doesn't matter as long as it is an activity that you like and that you think your ideal qt would do.