>>1461830No offense but you are just getting started with raising a family , you really have no idea whats in store.
These are the good times, the salad days if you will.
You have no idea if one of you kids will grow up to be a drug addict or a stripper.
You have not dealt with teen angst.
Never had a kid get into a serious car accident.
Never seen a child compromise themselves in ways they can never recover from.
You have no idea what youre in for.
If you are very lucky you will feel all this pain but still end up raising decent people who are productive and somewhat happy.
A solid 5% of parents will end up in situations of absolute irredeemable tragedy .
Everyone else with end up on a sliding scale somewhere in between.
Dont try to tell young people having kids is a fucking picnic.