>>1238521No him but you don't know he's "essentially okay" with it/ I'm a gay and there are places around my city that I know are nasty cruising spots only because other people have told me about it. I'm not okay with any of that shit and I wish it didn't exist, the only reason I know is because I talk to gay people occasionally who know about shit like that. Especially the older nasty perverts who had no choice but to pursue blowjobs in mcdonald's bathrooms and get anal from HIV+ married men in alleyways when they were on "business trips". That relic culture of outcast sexuality won't disappear for a long time, if ever.