>>1310455i married a great woman 20 years ago, have 2 kids becoming teens. we have a splendid relationship and love eachother more than when we were newlyweds.
6 years ago we moved out from the city (buenos aires, we're from argentina) because it was like living in hell.
we went to a small village in a sierras province were we bought a small plot with a simple beautiful house. i was working remote (graphic designer), planting my own garden, mountain biking, hiking, fishing and basically having the time of my life.
but after a couple of years my wife felt that this was too far from her family and civilization and started to feel kind of depressed. kids were doing ok, but they were also missing family and friends.
so after debating a lot we moved again, this time to a relatively small city (100.000hab) where she has friends and family and feels better.
but is in the middle of a basedbean ultra plain green desert, were i have almost no contact with /out/. i have to ride my bike in aland that looks like a billiard table fumigated as fuck, there's not a hill in literally thousend of km, rivers are almost dead due to agrotoxics and most of the people are assholes who think they are the shit because they inherited some land from their inmigran hardworking grandpas and now they exploit it industrially.
now wife's happy, kids are happy, and i'm feeling like shit again.
so marriage is important and beautiful, but even wityh a great relationship it may be a burden.
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