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Anonymous Sat 02 Dec 2017 21:21:40 No.1150377 View View Reply Original Report

>Used to be /out/
>Ever since I moved and live on my own away from people I once knew I just sit at home
>H-how do I go outside again and find new reasons and goals in life?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 02 Dec 2017 21:26:58 No.1150380 Report

Quoted By: >>1150386

It sounds like you haven't really focused on what you're actually interested in doing. For example, if you loved skiing you'd be motivated, if you loved urban exploring you'd be motivated, if you loved photography you'd be motivated, etc.

Think about what you really like to do and what you truly like about /out/, and focus on it. If you used to always hike through the woods to go to a fishing spot but don't have the motivation to do that maybe it wasn't the fishing you really liked, maybe it was the hike itself, etc. Figure it out.

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Anonymous Sat 02 Dec 2017 21:37:14 No.1150386 Report

Quoted By: >>1150414 >>1150428

>>1150380
>It sounds like you haven't really focused on what you're actually interested in doing.

No, not focused at all. but the problem is I'm alone these days since I moved to a new state. I don't know anyone here and what the fuck do you do alone?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 02 Dec 2017 22:16:44 No.1150414 Report

Quoted By: >>1150822

>>1150386
>and what the fuck do you do alone?

go /out/

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 02 Dec 2017 22:37:01 No.1150428 Report

Quoted By: >>1150822 >>1151198

>>1150386
Time to grow up and become a man and realize if you want anything you have to do it yourself. No one else will ever do anything for you or give a shit about you except as a way of milking you for their benefit

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 03 Dec 2017 15:17:48 No.1150822 Report

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>>1150428
>>1150414
Only manchildren would disagree with this

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Anonymous Mon 04 Dec 2017 01:55:16 No.1151198 Report

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>>1150428

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Anonymous Mon 04 Dec 2017 23:14:49 No.1151758 Report

Quoted By: >>1151803

>>1150377
Find an /out/ interest, man the fuck up, and go meet a few folks. You may like them, or some of them at least.

Just google hiking club, camping, outdoor photography, look up DNR website for your state. Attend an educational/training thing they put on. Go to a kayak/canoe store ask about trips.

Join Nature Conservancy, trout unlimited, ducks unlimited, pheasants forever, local river conservation club.

Do a little research on what the fuck you want to do, then go do it.

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Anonymous Tue 05 Dec 2017 00:26:48 No.1151803 Report

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>>1151758
Thanks, I've realized this week I'm actually going to make it...

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 05 Dec 2017 04:10:32 No.1151986 Report

Quoted By: >>1152013 >>1152211

Can you blow it? Can you move to an area and do such a shitty job of making friends/ connections when you are new that the window closes? Do you just become that weird guy that wasn't ever very friendly, let's get away from him. I feel like I should just move to another state and try again. I have a friend in Bozeman. Is this how people become drifters??

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 05 Dec 2017 05:02:22 No.1152013 Report

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>>1151986
nah man, in /out/ circles being a kinda weird loner is cool. Like, have you ever met any *normal* person who wanted to hike the Appalachian Trail, for instance?

Eventually you'll realize that there are lots of weird people who like to go /out/, have trouble finding friends, and find a place as another awkward member of the hiking club or the gun club or whatever. And maybe meet an awkward girl who's in the same boat and fall in love.

don't think about what might go wrong. Just go and be surprised by what goes unexpectedly right.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 05 Dec 2017 15:22:18 No.1152211 Report

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>>1151986
Well I fucked up my social circle on my own choices

I focused on work and my business, meanwhile the people I worked with actually spent time talking to each other. After a while nobody wanted to talk to me since I was always busy with work and became a workaholic..

Anyway, it all started when I started growing my business and than I ended up rich and alone

Social skills matter, if there is anything I would have changed from 2016-2017 it would be to have a little social life in my life and maybe study a bit more on certain hobbies/interest i do have

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