Dude, don't do it.
No woman is worth signing a contract that is so one-sided. The ONLY reason to get married is if you intend to procreate before she takes off, so that you have recognized rights to the children that you otherwise wouldn't have. In most states, you have obligations (e.g. child support) but not any rights to visitation, shared parenting, etc. except at the whim of the mother or until a parenting plan is ordered by the court.
If you want what marriage is SUPPOSED to be, both of you have your lawyers draft up bulletproof prenuptial agreements, including an agreement to bifurcate any divorce proceeding from a financial determination (that way either of you can get a divorce immediately and then argue about your prenups and finances later if you have to) and THEN your marriage can be all about "love."
But seriously, screw that. I have four sons. Been married to their mother for 16 years. I will not recommend that any of them get married, period. I love their mom, but there's a hell of a lot of resentment over the fact that there are a few times I should have left her ass but didn't want the legal and financial disadvantages of divorce, and she knew it and used it to squeeze me into staying. Ergo, yeah, I love her, but it's the kind of love like you'd give your golden retriever - if he got ran over by a car you'd be bummed out but ultimately just get another dog. How do you really love somebody who uses the unfairness of the legal system to manipulate you? Remove the possibility of manipulation, and then you can be all pair-bonded much as you want.
