>>1284751>>1284752>>1284758What the fuck do you know?
Your family was probably alway functional.
It is not your responsibility unless you make it so. It is people's responsibility to fix temselves.
Self improvement leads to self sufficiency.
Being part of a family does not mean you cannot think for yourself or that you can only do things that benefit everyone.
You may think being responsible for others is a virtue but it not always the case.
Some families can not be fixed.
There are sometimes problems that were perpetuated throughout generations - or caused by a single generation; that can never be fixed.
It's not as easy as cleaning your room.
Sometimes the problem with a family is it's members and those problems can be so severe that nothing short of a heavy pruning of the family tree will remedy it. I never asked for this.
Something like having trouble with a loan or adultery is a joke of a problem.
Cutting your losses when there is no way to win is not weakness.
Weaknesses is sacrificing yourself to problems caused by others who undermine and attempt to undo everything you do.
I've spent the majority of my conscious life trying to fix my family.
I could see the problems when I was a teen, but by the time I was old enough to do something, there was nothing to fix.
I spent another 15 years trying to fix what was beyond gone.
I'm now over 30. I literally gave having a life inorder to be there for them. It was a mistake.
Every single thing I owned I had to give up. Just €130 and my Grandfather's old Mercedes is all I have left give or take a few thousand.
I renounced my inheritance too. It is no long my problem now.
I let my Sister grow up in a toxic environment because of misconceived responsibility.
It is just me and my her now. She understands what I had to do and why.
I know she misses home, but doesn't want to go back either. It's just a bunch of acres and stone stacked together.
Maybe she still has a chance at a good life.
