>>1988454Yes and he's right.
You see, I too live in a small-ish shitty cabin with plywood floors. I used to have an outhouse but a squirrel got in the toilet and died and I havent been in it since. I do the deed in the neighbors toilet or plan a trip to town around it.
There is no way I would even consider bringing a woman I'd start relations with out to there until I at least finish building the bathroom and kitchen.
You need to open your eyes a bit. You could describe your living situation a bit better for better suggestions. From the sound of church and all, you mist live close enough to a town that the priest has seen the house, probably even knowing the previous inhabitants. From how you make it sound though, you may be on the outskirts and not have any close neighors.
This is all very bad news for you, as You are fighting three things:
>the image the of the previous owner in the minds of all inhabitants (likely poor)This is where you likely already fucked it up. when you go and inhabit a previously run down or junky house, you gotta immediately make big changes, show initiative, make everyone know that you are not going to be just like the previous owner.
>you live further out from the main community and women raised in said community dont like this.Yes, the one not under your control so much. Dont blame your fucking failures around it though. You can combat this by improving ease of living infrastructure in and around your cabin. Stacy may not wana move so far away she cant walk to vickies house to get drunk or whatever women do, but she wont have to if you have a modest shed with a couple snow machines inside and a shoveled path leading to it.
>the house is lower quality than comparable houses. maybe I'm going out of order here... Why would stacy chose to live in a shithole over an average house? Bring your damn house up to average. You dont gotta go crazy and b the best house on the block, but just even it out with the most of them.
