>>2028000A lot of gay people think they are bi at first because the social expectation to like women is really strong. We don't even consciously realize it, let alone openly discuss that expectation, it is simply the default for most boys.
>I know for a FACT I'm also attracted to biological women.And there are gay men who come out in their 70s, 80s, and even 90s who have been telling themselves this lie for years.
It is only hurting yourself. What do you have to lose dating men who don't crossdress or pretend to be women? Maybe you could actually be happy.
>doesn't want to admit he's attracted to womenI've never once had a genuine thought of a woman being sexually arousing but that didn't stop me from telling myself, insisting to myself that I liked women as a kid because I was scared to accept being gay, like you.
There's hope and happiness on the other side.
I hope you can find the courage and strength to accept yourself as gay. I know it can be very challenging and take time.
