>>2126809Assuming male:
1) Get /out/ as much as you can yourself. You've gotta love it first.
2) Look for /out/ related things that aren't themselves /out/. Conservation, recycling centers, community cleanups, park commission cleanups, animal rescues doing community outreach or needing volunteers.
You want to find things that /out/ people are going to, but are in safe, well-lit portions of the city surrounded by people. No sane woman is standing around innawoods waiting for someone to introduce themselves to her so if that ever happens run. You want to introduce yourself in a safer place and then build from there.
3) Introduce yourself to everybody. Make as many new friends as you can. Go on group hikes even if they are sausage parties. Attend any class or activity that passes by.
Do not make the common mistake of only introducing yourself to the ladies, you want to get as wide a set of connections as you can. Even if someone isn't right for you, they may know someone who is right for you. They can also hook you up with a lot of great resources in the meantime.
4) Do not be a shitty person. Do not flake out, lie, take stupid risks, cut corners, misrepresent yourself or your experience level, or do illegal shit in full view of the public. You don't need to be a saint but you do need to present yourself as someone they wouldn't mind seeing at the family reunion for the rest of their lives. Do not be a shitty freeloader nor present yourself as one on accident.
5) If you have followed everything up to this point, you will be a well-liked member of the local /out/ community. Word *will* get out that you're single and when it does you'll have 100 wingmen already in place. Continue to not be an asshole before, during, and after any dates that occur and you will eventually get introduced to people who make multiple dates worthwhile.
Good luck.
