What's the best way for a homesteader to want to be left alone while also not living in the wilderness at the same time? Get 20+ acres of land about 5-20 minutes outside of a small town?

>inb4 we are full
Already in the rural suburbs of a red state fully assimilated both politically and culturally. Not a threat to your livelihood. We are in a good area but we have urbanites buying up one acre lots and getting 4000sqft mcmansions built up everywhere