>>2622986I’m the first anon you replied to any you’re correct.
And this is unfortunate because I am currently flat broke. In no position to date financially, or mentally.
And I swiped around on bumble today for the hell of it, matched with a 10/10 1/4th jamaican woman (she has that golden skin, big ass and tits, European facial features and hair) who I’ve known since I was 5. Never really spoke but had her in classes during elementary school.
And I can’t do anything. I’m flat broke, I’m 90lbs heavier than my profile, I have other shit to take care of and focus on. Just losing the weight and fixing my money will be enough for me to be ready. But that’s minimum a year away. Simply have more important shit to worry about right now.
Could end up being wife material for all I know and I basically have to cut losses. But that’s the beauty of this, she’s not gonna be the only option. When I. Ready there’ll be more. Shit my last ex from a year ago I thought would be my last chance.
Have your shit in order and it’s that fucking easy. You don’t have to be rich, just independent. The bare minimum. Make enough to support yourself, have any car newer than 2010, be in shape, have hobbies and passions, and a rough plan of what you want out of life/where you’re going in the next 10 years. You don’t gotta be rich, you don’t gotta be 6’2” 220 lean giga chad (although those things help). Just be an adult and a person.
Surprisingly meeting those requirements BTFOs most men. And it’s really bare minimum shit we should all have handled (for our own selves) anyways.
