>>2742928ioverlander and sekr and ltva seem cool i need to check that out
do what works for you, keep it minimal if possible. find a bakery that throws out donuts and has a bathroom, if they let you park in front that just is your whole life solved right there.. If you have anyone trying to GET you into their house, don't. Just don't, they will make being homeless shitty in the end. Stay for a night but leave of course.
Working two jobs and sleeping in my car was the best time of my life. I wasn't trying to find something/somewhere to exist, I was inside working and making money. It seems you are looking for a campground to JUST park as in you are trying to just exist mang. So you're not trying to camp you're trying to just exist. Just get get all the jobs. Once you have lots of money change your style.
the propane/butane single stovetop is cool, but if you have an suv you could maybe get the one that has a little oven underneath. Though, the infrared ovens are the new kings. Or you could get a good inverter and maybe also a deep cycle battery, maybe even a solar panel on top, or just use some 12oz things. a 12v kettle or a hot water dispenser. I have a tabletop icemaker and ice shaver lol the dumbest thing I have is a food warming lunch box but it could be great for you.
You want to be kinda inconspicous so having a camper is obvious. The suv is good but even an accord is fine bc you can take off the headrest and it folds down perfect to a bed. A normal car is good for a lot and a small box truck is also good as it can be a camper but look like a transit. Neither can park in a neighborhood and look normal but a transit looks more normal than a camper on average.
Get a storage unit and a pull behind camper.