>>4411829For the ceremony part, it can be difficult to know exactly where to stand at which moments. I've only done 3 weddings but from my experience, you are there to capture one of the couple's most important day in their entire lives. If you need to stand in front of guests to get the shot, you're going to do it. Being in the middle isle is usually a good spot, or on either side of the front benches. Once you get into other parts of the day though, you are the one capturing the day for them so don't worry about being in a space you shouldn't be. Take control of situations where you see opportunities for a group photo or something you think would make a nice composition. Don't be afraid to direct people (easier said then done because like most of us here, I have a level of social anxiety). This is a shot from when the bridesmaids were getting ready in their matching PJs (a typical part of the bride's day). I had hung one of their dresses on the ceiling light and positioned her to do makeup on the floor for an artsy shot.
The only problem with positioning is when you have to work with a videographer. You need to be very communicative with them to ensure you both can get the shots you need. But if you stick with small venues, that generally leads to people not wanting to spend money on videography as well. Pictures will typically take priority when it comes to content they receive from their wedding day.