>>3774007women don't care about looks like men do anon, they don't even care if you are greasy. you just can't be a greasy basement dweller
look at Serge Gainsbourg, or Leonard Cohen, women get wet at the mention of their name and they are not muscular or good looking men. Women want confidence, style, humor, and compliments, dress well, be funny (straight man works well for socially awkwardness, think John Cleese). Be forward but not creepy, this is so much easier when you are young, once you are in your mid 30s shit gets more complicated. The shit I got away with when I was a kid would get me in jail now.