>>4141602While I agree we should never stoop to the level of being an incel.
You can play league, watch anime etc but like everything in life it needs balance.
Hit the gym, stop eating junk and if you can't lose the weight go on a semiglutide to help. Get your hair styled, become well rounded and get many hobbies and interests, watch some sports, go on hikes, be open to criticism from women you wanna be with. Some girls are no better. They maybe damn hot but batshit insane from years of being a cosplayer. I don't think I've ever met a normal cosplayer/onlyfans who were normal in social situations. They are so fucked up in the head that I have a policy to never date them or get involved.
So yes everyone should work on themselves. Everything can change. Even 4/10 can get laid simple by working out and becoming more physical. See a therapist too if you struggle with social anxiety.
I still stand by my point above about not getting together with unstable models. They will bring you down a dark hole. Even if it's fun and the sex is great remember we are photographers and word of mouth is huge in our industry. A normal action can be perceived as negative and models will tell other models and you might lose your pool of people to work with. I've seen people who got cancelled for a normal action between 2 consenting adults during the metoo movement and the damage was already done when the truth came out.
